Childhood trauma (typically domestic abuse) is a big factor in preteen/teen age abuse. Some parents may teach their kids that you shouldn’t cry, so they express those emotions in ways of anger. Violence always makes things worse, it never solves the issue it just makes things 10x worse. (Share a time where someone used violence against you or you used violence as an example) There are many ways to prevent violence. Teaching your kids and other people that it’s completely okay to cry, and it’s normal to have emotions where you’re angry but we can never use violence.