I believe the answer is manifest functions. Hope this helps :)
Medical leaves of absence
Because they were most likely looking for sympathy and weren’t FOR REAL asking what would happen if they shoot themselves. They probably thought you were being cold and selfish when you weren’t. Hope this maybe helps! :)
When you would accept standards of behavior when entering a new classroom this would demonstrate the process of adopting group norms as you would start behaving in similar ways as does the group behave.