I don’t want a lot for Christmas,there is only one thing I neeeeed and iiii don’t care about the presents underneath the Christmas trees
I believe the answer is: c. rapturous / grieving
the poet in the wanderer told the experience that felt by someone who is on an exile.
In the poem, the poet reminiscence the better times before he is on exile and what he might do when he manage to come out from it. The grief on that dream come because he realize that the dreams would most likely never be realized.
Here are some of the ways the families are significant, I'm not sure how far you are in the story yet tho. I read this book last year, so I can't remember which parts these are from
1) The way they have 2 children to a family, one male and one female
2) Raising children were rules in the community
3) The parents aren't the real birth givers of the children, you had to apply for kids
4) Very controlled family with special practices
Hope this helps! (I believe it's all before chapter 10)