I think it means you judge people without even allowing them to say anything.
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The answer would be like this, using MLA format for in-text citations:
In order for you to know a person, you must first know his past, and especially the people, and circumstances, that shaped him/her into what he/she has become: "everything we are and all that we do can be traced back, in one way or another, to early influences..." (Monroe 35). Parents, relatives, very close and special people, and also circumstances, are the most important background information for someone to say they know anyone. In this man´s particular case, it is four main figures who become the framework, of who he is: "In my case, four figures from my childhood helped to make me who I am... my father, my mother, my grandmother, and my grandfather." (Monroe 35), because of the roles that they played in his life, and the way they impacted him: "... each giving me a gift that is unique..." (Monroe 35). And it is only through knowing about them, and how they played that role in his life that anyone can understand who he is (Monroe 35).
They sent letters to each other a couple of times. Many would agree that there is a classic story of the homosexual tensions bubbling just beneath the surface between Hemingway and Fitzgerald, so maybe there you could find room for jealousy. Both of them had strong perceptions of what it meant to be gay, and they stated how to interact with their gay friends. Perhaps if they had worked together, they could have done more for this, let us call it "project".
D) The memoir has an angry tone; the poem has an admiring tone.
Since the sentences are not provided in this question a probable answer will serve to address. "Initiation" is defined as the start or the beginning of something, a commencement of a certain action/behavior. Moreover, initiation here could mean of something that will assess the ability or capacity of the individual before becoming a member of a peer group or certain community.