He ruined her life by destroying and rebuilding her so called "poor" identity
And so made her lose who she really is
Answer:
In short, what makes a poem a poem is the ability to make the reader feel something. ... If it's a serious or depressing poem, the language should reflect that. If it's a poem about how long something should take, the words should not be short and move wuickly over the tongue.
D, her.
'her' is the female possessive, and we are talking about 'her own unique way.'
Since the way is hers, you use the possessive form.