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It depends on the relationship between each family member and how old his siblings are. if they are still like toddlers, well then they can't help obviously. Also who is Mitchell? A relative, a friend, a lover? that is also an important thing to note. I would either pick him or his father.
He is not seeing the real problem or situation. I assume this would be a characteristic of the Hodja.
Broadly speaking, liberty is the ability to do as one pleases