Well, it depends on what kind of situation you're in. But the best advice is to handle it the best you can. If you really have no idea how to improvise in the situation, search on the internet to see if other people have experienced what you're going through, and follow some advice that would seem like it would really help in your situation.
Answer:
Here is an example and you can just change the words:
"I can’t ever know what flowers they gave her,
on that brittle coffin,
Because those flowers belonged in the garden she made,
(That after they let grow wild and seething)
And kept in her eyes was a kindness worth more than what fate gave her,
That broken body, untrustworthy spine
And I hope she looked through her garden
One last time
Before they gave her to the roots"