Answer:
You shoul always add <u>"por favor"</u> to your commands in Spanish.
Explanation:
I will give you a list of examples:
¿Podrías cerrar la puerta al salir, por favor? - Could you close the door on your way out, please?
Por favor, ¿podrías apagar la luz? - Please, could you turn the light off?
Now, answering your question "how woud you tell him or her not to talk?" (using the <u>negative Ud</u>. command form).
Por favor, podría Ud. <u>no</u> hablar tanto?
<u>No</u> hable tanto, por favor.
Remember, in Spanish USTED (ud.) is more formal than TÚ, while in English the personal pronoun YOU works indistinctly; since TÚ is used with friends or in casual environments.