Listening/ getting attention and speaking your actions after listening help them and make time for them they might be having hard times at school and not saying don't let them control you. you do
best ways make them text it out because ether love technology so sit with them and ask the question and than you reply
have them have a book and than make them write out their behavior and make deals with them
One of the biggest concerns in doctors that I have seen from watching TV is that flu pandemics if left untreated can turn deadly not within a matter of days but within a matter of minutes. Hope this helped.