An Dexter falls in love with Judy because she is beautiful and confident, making herself seem desirable. Why was it difficult for Emily to meet suitable men in her youth? Her father never approved of any of them. He was gay so he was never going to marry her.
If they ask you about yourself, just start with what qualities you like about yourself.
TIP: Make eye contact and portray a confident appearance, like don't slouch and mumble, speak clear and sit straight, be on time, be prepared, and know what you're saying.