Question

Change the "You-language" statements into "I-language" statements. 1. You-Language: You make me frustrated when you forget to take out the trash. I-Language: 2. You-Language: Dad, you embarrass me when you tell jokes to my friends. I-Language: 3. You-Language: When you are late, you make me wonder if I should trust you with more responsibilities. I-Language: 4. You-Language: When you wear that suit and those sunglasses, you look like you're in the FBI. I-Language:

Answer 1

Answer:

1. I - language: I am unhappy that you refuse to take the trash out. Please, help me make things easier. Be more compassionate.

2. I - language: Dad, i feel awkward and stupid when you make jokes about me to my friends. Would you consider stopping it, please?

3. I - language: I am concerned whenever you stay out late. I worry a lot and fear for the worst. Could you be more responsible and inform me when you'll be late?

4. I - language: I do not think this outfit enhances your looks, people may find it a bit strange. You could give more thought to your sense of dressing next time.

Explanation:

A You-language are words that are used to imply that the listener is responsible or takes ownership of something and it usually starts with the pronoun 'you'. They are used to show blame, or to accuse the receiver.

An I-statement in contrast compels the speaker to take responsibility or ownership without shifting blame to the receiver. The speaker can still state his beliefs confidently but with compassion.