Do things like making sure these people are ready to be parents. We could offer parenting classes, support organizations like planned parenthood, and really make sure these people understand what it means to have a child, basically.
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Think about how Willy acts, obviously something is wrong with him because he keeps having these inescapable daydreams and goes on his own train of thought. The dialogue, especially near the end reveals what he thinks of of his sons.