Well it is not stop listening, or make an effort too attend, I am sure that assign meaning is correct.
        
                    
             
        
        
        
it is non-fiction because this is something that can happen or did happen
 
        
                    
             
        
        
        
Putting on the "You Goggles" will help you be a strong giver. 
The "You Goggles" help you better understand another person, since you are actively trying to understand things from their point of view.