she is ether hiding something. or she just wants you to respect her privacy and she is trying to see how much you trust her so she can figure out how much she can trust you. i say you should just tell her you don't care what she does to just do what she would want and then let her actions decide whether she realy cares abought or respects yall's relationship. maby put it in kinder words than did tho or you might just pi22 her off
b. She is just not comfortable with someone going through her stuff
It is probably b, and thats ok people are different and some just dont feel comfortable with people using and going through their things. If this is such a dealbreaker, you should talk to her about it and be open, try to help her earn your trust and maybe she'll be more comfortable with you going through her stuff. You should take it slow though
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