Sorry what is your question I got confuse you want to now if they are synonymous
        
             
        
        
        
Answer: I would come to the understand Romeo should not listen to Benvolio. 
Explanation:
Since what happens if Romeo found a new love? Julett would have a change of heart, THEN IT WOULD MESS UP THE WHOLE PLAY!
 
        
             
        
        
        
Answer:
yes
Explanation:
to identify your strengths and weaknesses remember what a man can do a woman can do it better