Question

My friend started dating this guy but he’s sad because his best friend told him that she’s going to feel like a third wheel. But, he told me that she and her friends always ignore him and he feels left out so he told me that “I can’t be with someone who makes my friends feel left out. I know how it feels and I don’t want anyone feeling that way”. What advice should I give him?

Answer 1

Answer:

i think they should try to build their relationship and create a stronger bond. besides, if they were leaving each other out before that, then his best friend shouldn't expect better treatment than she gave.

Answer 2

There are times in life where we face things that show us who our real friends are. The ones that care. Third wheels don’t have to feel left out. They can actually be involved quite a bit. If their friends cared about them, they would be happy for them rather than thinking so selfishly. Maybe tell them that they might need to include their third wheel a bit more so they don’t feel so neglected or left out. Other than that, they shouldn’t determine their whole relationship on how their friends feel. It’s how they make EACHOTHER feel that matters.