<span>by discouraging a hasty course of action</span>
I am here to tell you that you should absolutely do the work yourself and that there is no way in tarnation that you should use any essay-writing services on the Internet, then translate it to Chinese then back to English. You need to just write it yourself and not do what I just said not to do.
The answer is "don't" So, the correct sentence would be "<span>Don't your mom and I use the same hairdresser?"</span>