This mostly depends on the customs of the people who are getting married. Often, women in a traditional get treated like property, which can lead to them getting beaten up or much much worse. Women often become just machines for making babies, which can lead to numerous complications. The list of problems can go on and on.
Here is a sample dialogue between a respectful daughter and loving mother. The daughter is asking her mother if she can go to her friend Julia's house for a few hours.
"Hey mom, is it alright if I go to my friend Julia's house for a few hours?"
"What time will you be home?"
"I don't know, what time do you want me home?"
"7pm at the latest."
"Okay mom, thanks! Love you!"
"Love you too!"
<em>Hopefully this helps!</em>
I believe that the answer would be the first choice (to stress that getting caught driving drunk can cost a person their job) because one does not want to be embarrassed or ridiculed by being seen driving drunk.
Conflict because it just makes sense