Question

Write an I-message for the following scenario. Your boyfriend/girlfriend is constantly putting you down in front of your friends. He/she thinks is funny, but your feelings getting hurt.

Answer 1

I'd tell him that he is abusive. Because that is verbal abuse. And I would leave him because no one needs that negativity.

Answer 2

This isn’t ok. I’ve put up with this for like forever but I can’t do it anymore. You claim to care about me but you really don’t, you know how I figured it out? If you truly cared about me, you wouldn’t keep humiliating me and putting me down. It’s bad enough that you put me down in front of my friends and embarrass me but it’s worse that you think it’s FUNNY. It’s not funny to hurt the one that you supposedly “loved”. I’ve had enough of the abuse and humiliation. I hope you have a wonderful life and find another girl to bully around. I hope she eventually sees the truth just as I did and leaves you the same way.
I’m done with it, and I’m done with you. Goodbye.

I hope this helped! :-)