It is possible that in time they could find forgiveness in their hearts for their enemies. They would probably never forget but it is possible to forgive.
The colony most tolerant was Pennsylvania, which was founded by a quaker William Penn
There was new music, such as jazz and the blues. New churches and religious customs came north. There was different food and spoken dialect. Celebrations from their cultures came along with new neighborhoods. Finally, newspapers and journals had more of an impact.