Answer:
The sentence which uses active voice is option i.e.
Jodie caught the bouquet at the wedding.
The tone is dispassionate. Specific words would be cold, dead. The tone impacts my overall understanding by me getting to experience what it felt like somewhat to be a soldier suffering through all this horror.
“it depends” is the correct answer.
Submission or adherence to existing norms is safer than going against it especially if you are inexperienced or if you do not understand them. In other words, it is better to stay passive or be compliant when you have not experienced it or when you lack new and not used to it.
Another perspective of the poem could what the girl is thinking, or what the lady at the store is thinking or said, or even a father or stranger that had contact (just talked to them) with them for a bit.
