A loving influence that wants the best for you most often wouldn't force of pressure you into doing anything that may make you uncomfortable by doing risky activity. Helpful influences like teachers try to bring out your drive to do positive and teach you how to tell what is good for you than just telling you to do or not to do something just because they say so.
If someone where to encourage you do do your homework on time, get a job, or eat healthy it still takes your drive to follow through and do it, positive influences bring out the positive in you.
On the other hand, bad influences may use fear and peer pressure to force you to do things. It could be drug use or even making you do something positive, but it could still have a negating behavioral influence on you. I encourage you to hone your critical thinking skills and use will always be able to tell what will be positive and negative for you. Everyone is different.
True there are ome factores that a child may inherate like their fathers hair color or their mom eyes it is scientficually shown that no matter what the choild is goting to have the trated of both the mother and father
The family history of lung cancer is uncontrollable, it is a risk yet the individual can't control that, however he/she can control the eating habits, smoking, and amount of exercise.
