Tom and Daisy Buchanan have a marriage of convenience. Tom likes the idea of a beautiful and socially savvy wife; while Daisy enjoys having a wealthy and well-connected husband. Their relationship is toxic and unhealthy, yet they seem to have no intention of working to make it better.
Tom is publicly unfaithful and has been so since their honeymoon. He had a fling with a maid in a Santa Barbara hotel where he and Daisy... ehh well to put it sraight no you cant call this love
I think that Sofia should decide this for herself.
Explanation:
She is the only one who knows how much she can do. Her peers could give her their opinions, but these won't help her all that much. She is the expert on herself, and her work. She has to do this herself.