Jo is a courier delivering parcels throughout the metropolitan area. Although she considers herself law abiding, she often break
s the speed limit while making her deliveries. Which of the following statements does not reflect a likely response to the conflict between her attitude and her behavior? A) "It's not a problem that I speed a little bit; it's not much over the limit, and everyone else speeds some."
B) "The speed limits are just too low around here; anyone driving at a reasonable speed will break them."
C) "This speeding is irresponsible. From now on I am observing the speed limits."
D) "I've got to drive fast sometimes, otherwise I will not make all my deliveries and I'll lose clients."
E) "It's wrong to break even minor laws, but I'll probably keep speeding anyway."
She considers herself law-abiding but according to her behavior, she justifies her actions by criticizing the limits established by the government. There is a conflict here that shows her lack of responsibility in following and respecting the simple rules.
In order to be an active listener
who listens with empathy One can start asking various question to
investigate further and let the student open up more for more insight or
another way can be to keep encouraging that student to continue his discourse
which will help him bring every bit of information forward.