Seventy percent of the 46 million Americans who smoke want to quit. But successful quitting rates are dismal. Smokers usually try to quit several times before permanently kicking the habit, and smokers who don't participate in a smoking cessation program fail 95 percent of the time.
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Mixed messages- when you say one thing but your body/body language says something else or vice versa or one you say something but the other person looks at it at a different way. It misleads them.