The long term ill-ness one you would have had time to prepare for, but it doesn't make it any better. It just seems to not hurt as long. You'll be sad for a couple of days. The sudden unexpected one will tear you apart. You'll be shocked and for that you'll wonder, why them and how. You'll most likely be very sad for a long time.
Is this for health i think the answer would be self confidence
False you should always read warning labels so you know what to expect from your medication and so you'll know what side effects may occur.