Because he hated them easy answer
Two examples of code-switching are when Tan speaks "incorrect" or "broken" English to her mom in the first personal anecdote (when she tells her mom not to buy something), and when Tan realizes that the English she's using for a literary event is strange to use in front of her mother.
This code-switching reflects Tan's complex upbringing and Asian-American background, because, unlike many people who don't come from immigrant families or who don't speak several languages, she was acutely aware of certain sociolinguistic systems from an early age. For example, although Tan's mother's English makes sense to her, Tan would have to talk for her mother in several situations in order to be understood, to be taken more seriously, or even to be treated fairly.
It depends on her quality of life and the quality of her marriage if she is repeatedly abused and her quality of life is less than desirable then she wouldn't. But if her and her husband get along and she has everything she needs, then yes she would be happy with her life.
Two lines that end in a Gg rhyme scheme.