Distinctive has a positive connotation.
Answer: Sometimes immigrant parents decide not to teach their children a heritage language because they think it will hinder their children's chances for success in their new country. It is a parent's choice to decide what language they wish to raise their child in.
Explanation:
The simile is describing some ones noses possibly bleeding<span />
The candies are a symbol of comfort for Lilia, by throwing it away Lilia feels are she is independent and grown up and does not need the candies.