Elisa has a bad relationship with her husband Henry. Henry doesn't appreciate Elisa's femininity and sexuality. She grows the chrysanthemus as they were her children. However, her encounter with the tinker reawakens her sexuality and gives her hope. Her realization that her life is not going to change is real whe she sees the flowers thrown on the road.
I have a love hate relationship with fear it never stop and I'm always scared its scary and I can be in the safety place in the world and be terrified so ya