Question

An 8-year-old client whose grandmother died a week ago asks the parents about the grandmother's absence. Which statement by the parents could lead to a negative self-concept in the client?

Answer 1

Answer:

-"Did you do something wrong to your grandmother?"

-"Your grandmother will come back in a week."

-"You are not supposed to ask such questions."

Explanation:

If a child is told something in the likes of "Did you do something wrong to your grandmother?" or any other statement that suggests it is a child's fault, they might develop an idea it's their fault. This could result in developing anxiety of failure, bad behavior, and other things, including stronger death anxiety.

By lying to a child that "Grandmother will come back in a weak", the child might develop unhealthy illusions. They are being misinformed and they won't healthily grasp the concept of death.

Finally, if the child is told "You are not supposed to ask such questions." they might be scared to inquire about the life and surroundings. This also may lead to various anxieties.

It is best to be open and honest with the child but in a civilized, relaxed and understanding manner.