This is an example of "self-fulfilling prophecy".
A self-fulfilling prophecy is a conviction that works out on the grounds that we are going about as though it is as of now obvious. Our desire that we will see a specific result changes our conduct, which shapes the way others see us. Thus, others give the criticism we've set ourselves up to get, which serves to fortify the first conviction.
Like the presidential election, it involves us for voting.
<span>The question is asking us to say whether it is acceptable to change your personality if you want the relationship to last. I think that the intended answer is "false" because a relationship should be something that is compatible with how you are and you could end up being unhappy if you change your personality. However, it is acceptable to change some negative traits such as excessive jealousy. </span>
