Because it can help them bond and have fun together but i dont think it matters the race i think in general its good for a family . Hope i helped
In the story, it's written that she has drowned a young girl. But it's not an actual winning, rather than it convey that the woman usually see a young girl in the reflection but as she got older, she couldn't see the beautiful reflection anymore.
So i think the most appropriate answer would be : Realized that she must forget the past
hope this helps
When it said she was a bit of a BRAT.