Letting others define you
feeling bad when you say
going against personal boundaries to please others
Her friend should tell her that the other judges were wrong and that you should show them that your worth the part
It also can be due to depression. people ends up having a hard time and they just don't know what else to do. they end up taking the wrong path and try to hide this pain
You don't need to lose weight if you're health isn't at risk and you are happy!