Terrified and possibly awestruck. He could have died right then. His wife is down there somewhere, a woman who loves him unconditionally... Here he is out on a ledge literally about to throw his life away. Yes, success is wanted, but at what cost?
Success, for most people is something they’ve been hoping for since they graduated from high school if not earlier. When they gain the success they’ve been dreaming of it brings them great joy and makes them think about bigger and greater things for the future.
Yes, because that’s your friend and you should always try your best to be truthful and your friend did ask for your opinion. You should tell your friend how you feel, but let her know that you don’t know their bf/gf that well so your observations could be totally wrong.