The narrator's tone in the passage reveal the following about her perspective:
She will not let other people tell her how to dress.
She makes it clear that she does not like fashion and its dictates, and would rather dress modestly, which is what God tells people to do in the Koran, than following the "less is more" trend.
Things that do not grow or change.
It means that all the deaths of people get to him/her. Meaning that he/she hates all the deaths that's been happening. <span />
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I dont really understand the next one hope this helps.:)