Answer and Explanation:
Missionary Warner, even frightened by the situation and tempted to fight the bandit and take the gun from his hands, was gentle and as calm as possible. He spoke to the bandit cordially, trying not to show anxiety and fear. He was so friendly that he asked if the bandit would accept a cup of tea, which he had prepared himself.
There is a quote that accurately portrays the mood when Helen discovers her husbands fate:
"Scout," said Dill, "She just fell down in the dirt. Just fell down in the dirt, like a giant with a big foot just came along and stepped on her. Just ump-" Dills fat foot hit the ground. "Like you'd step on an ant."
Helen was very upset about Toms death.