It’s “not pretty” because of their opinion about it
When you help someone, do not expect return help from that person ( it’s not a Birthday party, where you get return gift immediately). You may not get any help from them and may avoid you if you ask them some help.
But wait, there is always someone different will help you in your greatest difficulties.
By just offering 108 coconuts chanting shlokas will not help to solve problems, In a way God is kind and always gives solutions to your problems provided you work sincerely for it. There is always a solution for a problem.
