To what Arthur are we referring?
I would say B, as we age, our own goals change drastically. When we’re young, some of us make goals about what we want to be, making sure we study for that exam, who our friends are, etc. but when we’re old, we focus more on retirement, making sure we pay off rent/bills, etc. This can show how not only our goals change, but how we also change as a person as well.
I'd say that the answer is B. Dee thinks her mother and Aunt Dicie oppressed her.
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4. by? I know for sure it not 1. for and 3. from.