<em>A basket of </em><em>oranges </em><em><u>was</u></em><em> presented to the </em><em>visitor</em>
<h2><em>hope</em><em> it</em><em> helps</em><em>!</em></h2>
I believe it's the third answer, Hopeful Reverence
I would rather be respected, because, while I may not be complimented as often, I know I won't stand for any disrespect. Also, it won't come my way if I am respected. Other people will know I am a person, and that is enough. No one will give me a hard time or question me if I'm respected, as well. Being loved, but not respected is a dreadful thing.