"We have before us an ordeal of the most grievous kind."
        
             
        
        
        
Answer:
-you could be helping them do something bad to themselves without knowing it. 
-They could be going through a rough time and because you couldn’t relate, you would make it worse for them. 
-people need space sometimes and if you don’t give that to them, they won’t feel good about themselves.
-everyone has feelings and not everyone wants people in their personal business
 
        
                    
             
        
        
        
1. look over it quickly to get a sense of its contents.
        
                    
             
        
        
        
since flowers can't actually reach to the sky it means that the flowers were growing very tall