A loaded word is a word that not only informs but also caries some emotion with it, such as condemning, exciting, praising.
In the statement above the loaded word is "crushing" - it makes a qualitative statement about the defeat: it was a very definite defeat.
Answer: If you are talking about something you did as being heroic persay, you are going to really stretch how heroic you were. Or if the story is sad, you might add details that are sad. Or if by chance someone has wronged you, you might use choice words that would "make that person feel bad."
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