Not able to see it or a very clear substance
Explanation:
what makes you feel flattered?
lavish praise and compliments on (someone), often insincerely and with the aim of furthering one's own interests.
Rahim says, you should not forget small things/ poor friends just because you now have access to big / rich, important people. For example, you cannot use a sword where you need a needle even though sword is much bigger than needle.
It’s probably patiences because they annoy you