I'm not going to write 50 words, but historical context is always important so you can use examples.
Answer:
For thy lover I cannot bare to see
the pain I yearn to be with thee
thy name is said with such grace
shall our bodies move in haste
for this is a love that shall not be
Explanation:
I would say they should once they are 18 because their brain should be developed enough to know right from wrong. Unless they have a mental disability.
The type of listen9ing for a group discussion would be objectve listening. Which means being open-mi nded and ready for discussion