Cell membranes contain a central bilayer formed by lipids. This protect that membrane.
First thing is Male gametes are called sperm and Female gametes are called eggs. So some physical differences are that the eggs are spherical in shape, much larger then sperm, and are immobile (they stay in the female reproductive organ during fertilization). Sperm are smaller, are in a cone shape, and have tails so the could move to the egg during fertilization.
If they are decreased at the same time and the same amount is being taken away from them at the same time then the gravitational force would stay the same but if they are be decreased one then the other they will go back and forth