given Closed Conversation:
Start by talking / You were so unfair to me. I deserve an A.
Assume you know / You gave me a bad grade because you don't like me
Share nothing / I don't care what you say.
change conversation to an Open Conversation:
Start by Listening
/ I would like to hear what you think of my paper.
Assume You Don't Know
/ I worked really hard and do not know how I can do better.
Share Your Thoughts
/ I thought my paper was good.
so the conversation goes like "I thought my paper was good. I worked really hard and do not know how I can do better. I would like to hear what you think of my paper."