Personification- I'm not quite sure, but, "Is this a dagger which I see before me," appears to be personification. I could be wrong. Apostrophe- None, that I know of. Allusion- "I have thee not, and yet I see thee still." Hyperbole- "The handle toward my hand? Come. let me clutch thee:--"
Its actually apostrophe because apostrophe is a figure of speech in which the speaker or writer addresses an inanimate object or an abstract concept. In this case it refers to an inanimate object.
It is somehow related because Sad Perfect is a book about a girl who has an eating disorder, as you know this is not an easy thing to deal with so it would not be uncommon to hate your life. It's not a quote from the book but it can relate.