The answer is 25 percent.
South Africa's official unemployment rate is 25.0 percent. While in expanded definition, the unemployment rate is 34.9 percent down to 36.1 percent which includes discouraged workers.
The correct answer is the third one
It’s probably best to be straight up and ask. But if you don’t want to do that, you could just mention her up in passing. Such as “Hey did you see what Anna posted?” (let’s say Anna) or maybe some thing like “hey I literally thought I saw Anna at Walmart” and then when this person is somehow brought up, you could be like “speaking of which, I didn’t see her at the party? Everything okay?”