First off you should take them to the nearest hospital. If they are still talking and breathing well this means that the food or whatever is lodged in their esophagus. From what I've learned do not do the hiemlich maneuver because that can make it worse. This actually happened to my brother last week and he is now fine. I hope this helped you!
Just let him down nicely and if he is not a emotinonl mess then he will understand but if he is an emotional mess than just say you will think about it. But if you like like him then say yass girl go get your mans.
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Psychological is the correct answer!