I just have to point out, chicken is never safe to eat. All animal proteins cause cancer, type 2 diabetes, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, migraines, high mercury levels, osteoporosis, arthritis, obesity, etc. etc. Chicken is especially unhealthy because of the salmonella contaminates in it. By the way, I think your answer would be below 40 degrees but I'm not positive. Just keep this in mind next time you eat animal products.
ask more questions to open up and definitely confront the problem to her so you guys can work it out because if you don't and you both keep holding back it's not finna help nun so just go to her talk to her get out of you comfort zone. make the first moves yk don't hold back communication is key.