The answer is: Psychology
Social engineering is a form of crime that's being done by tricking someone into giving a crucial information that can endanger them to other person.
Since this require the victim to be the one that give the information to the perpetrator, this type of crime require the perpetrator to have a good understanding in human psychology and how to influence other people's behavior.
A because it just seems like he ain’t listening and that’s what i would think if my mom did that to me
A long poem told about heroic deeds is called an epic. The first epic poem was written 4,000 years ago. Most epics are about the length of a decent sized book, telling the long and detailed account of a hero's journey.
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